*coughs*
Actually as a female, I agree with what that pilot told you
too
The saving for marriage bit with the man you love is very sweet
and naive
But being incompatible in bed is a nightmare
Precisely! Sexual incompatibility can be a contributing
factor in breaking a marriage.
Before we buy a car, we study its specs in detail, test drive
it, make sure its parts are suitable and good enough for the job...
Most importantly, we road-test it.
Same theory applies to something of greater importance because
this time round, you're not signing over a huge wad of cash for the
car, but rather, you're signing over your LIFETIME! So you'd
jolly well better be sure that it's going to work.
There are some values and traits I will never compromise
on. And I no longer believe in bending over backwards to
tolerate something that I KNOW will come up in future and be the
spark that ignites anger / frustration / irritation.
